June 17th 2014

So... ya all know that I hate the stupid freaking drama that Bob brings me, I swear that if the kids were little I would leave this state and start over somewhere where he couldn't find us. I keep thinking with each milestone (moving out, getting a divorce, bob losing the house) that things will calm down and we can have a more ‘normal’ life, without all the crap. This guy is going to force me to go into a mental institute (which actually sounds really good right now). I just can’t believe this is my life…its worse than a stupid soap opera. 

I don't even know where to start with this one...funny thing happened, Blake tells me that Bob got all these vitamins (that he has) for free. I ask him how he got them for free, well I guess the woman that he was going to rent the basement from in Chisago/Lindstrom sells this line of vitamins and Bob was going to sell them (under her) so he got them all for free. Then the house and the vitamin thing fell through..He then mentions that this lady use to work with Beth (my counselor) and Beth got her fired. I was floored, for many reasons, one of which is why would a 14 year old even know be involved in a conversation like this and who the heck is this woman now? Beth is super awesome and would never do anything like that. 

Up until now, all I knew about this lady is that she is older (so Blake says, but she is really mid-late 40's) and that Bob met her somewhere and they watched her dogs while she went out of town a couple of times. The kids have been to her house and met her and everything. Also, this is the address that Bob gave me to give to the baseball association so Blake could play on that team (since he was banned from NB because of Bob). 

I go to counseling yesterday and tell Beth that the lady that Bob and the kids were first going to move in with (before thinking about moving in with Eva and now with Jonelle) is saying that she got her fired. Beth's face looked horrified and I explained what I knew of her and we confirmed we were talking about the same person. So this lady was selling vitamins out of her office (which is not legal) and that is why she got fired, nothing to do with Beth and Beth still keeps in touch with this lady and even knows stories about recent guys she had been dating (Could it be Bob? Beth is now going to find out). Guess this lady is a little on the crazy side.. Beth is sure that they were sleeping together cause that is just how she is. Glad I didn't get her for a counselor and glad that my kids are not living with her.

So I say that I wonder how he even met her, and Beth says for sure at the bar and asks if he goes to the 'Brick' in North Branch, this lady used to date the owner of that bar...turns out that is one of Bob's favorite bars, in addition to the Fuse (where Jonelle use to are still is a bartender there). 

Its just so crazy that in a matter of months Bob had 3 woman that are/were willing to let him move in and they know nothing about him, it really makes you think...not to mention that Bob is so eager to move his kids in with women that he doesn't even really know.

Then I get a text from my friend Justin (my boss at my last job), he says that he was in a golf tournament this weekend in Forest Lake and his partner was an attorney from Chisago and they got talking and she ends up knowing Bob and I through hockey. She tell's him that I am a sweetheart and Bob is an asshole....That put a little smile on my face because I don't know this lady but I keep thinking that Bob has everyone fooled in Chisago/Lindstrom, but slowly I think people in that town will also start to see who he really is, just like in North Branch and hopefully he will have to get out of these communities and leave us all alone.